17th August – Jealous Me

Dear Bandru,

There are a lot things that I would love to tell you but today we will settle for this one.

I know you don’t worry about me cheating on you and honestly speaking neither do I. Hope you understand that the distance and longing may cause me to get jealous (a red face and smoke coming from my ears and nose) and that is not because I do not trust you it is because I am so far away from you that I cannot enjoy your company ever.

You mean the world to me and intentionally doing something evil to you is practically impossible for me. My jealously is never intended to hurt you and make you feel not in control of your life.

I honestly hope you understand the feeling. (I love it when you get jealous for me)

Lots of love,

Bada Bandar

15th August- Will I Survive?

Our wish to meet will stay on the fantasy side for coming days unlike our plans but what I am wishing for is that it never enters the lie side.

Dear Bandru,

Yesterday I was talking about how excited I was to meet you.

You are well aware of my love for the written word. I have written a lot of things in my life, none of it was or is a lie. Fantasies? Yes. Lies? No.

Our wish to meet will stay on the fantasy side for coming days unlike our plans but what I am wishing for is that it never enters the lie side.

Lots of Love,

Bada Bandar

14th August- The return

Do you know how amazing it feels to be in love with someone so much? Of course you do.

Dear Bandru,

I have nearly recovered from my injuries from the I mentioned in the last one.

We will come back to our daily schedule now.

I know you are at your home town and I am not sure whether or not you will be able to read the post but I will still go on.

We will be meeting each other very soon, after six months. I have been trying to imagine the day but this is the first time I am not able to use my imagination quite well which is rarely the case.

I haven’t talked with you in the last 36 hours and it feels so empty. It may seem like an exaggeration but it is not! I have unlocked my phone for not more than what I can count on my fingers.

Do you know how amazing it feels to be in love with someone so much? Of course you do.

How are you? I am waiting to see a subscription from your email address.

Lots of Love,

Bada Bandar

6th August – Disappearance

The love we share deserves a very happy ending and so do we.

Dear Bandru and my readers,

I haven’t written in a while. Today is a special one. I am going to write to you and our readers in the same letter.


This blog is a collection of real feelings from a real guy to a real girl, at the beginning of this blog I was planning on keeping this truth hidden but for effectively telling you guys what I want to, I needed to disclose this.

I am from India and so is Bandru. I use a two-wheeler for my commute of 16- 20 kms a day. I am concerned with my safety while riding and that is the reason I never hop on my bike without proper riding gear. A few days ago while returning from work, passing through a countryside, a stray cow came running and hit my vehicle while I was riding. It was unexpected and fell. I got injured, my cloths were torn and bike was seriously damaged BUT I had no serious injuries because of all the riding gear I was wearing. Without the good quality protective helmet that I was wearing, this post could never be written.

I understand traveling to all the places with all those knee and elbow pads is not practical but a helmet, a good one is not that much a hassle when you compare it to losing your precious life.

ALWAYS WEAR A HELMET and A SEAT-BELT IF YOU ARE DRIVING because you too have a cute little Bandru or a Loving Bada Bandar waiting for you.


I know you avoid wearing helmet too, I don’t want anything to happen to you because of some other careless fellow. The love we share deserves a very happy ending and so do we. Wear a helmet, please. Everything else can come later.

Lots of love,

Bada Bandar.

P.S. Today I will be compensating for not writing for all these days! Stay tuned and share this one, It will be a huge achievement if we could prevent even on serious injury!

Him and Her Part III

She was again on his bike, riding. The same wind was blowing, same sun was shining and same traffic was around them, the only difference was that everything was bothering her. His silence and even his words were annoying her at that moment.

Filtering through the traffic, as the bus stop was just a few miles, gloom started to take him down too. She knew that the U turn after dropping her will be the hardest one in his life and surprisingly she considered him a pretty good rider.

She slowly climbed up the stairs of the bus, he could see the sadness in each of her steps. She was aware of him looking at her, she turned and ran towards him for a final hug. The people, buses, traffic nothing matter to them at that moment. She felt his hands withdrawing from her waist slowly, a kiss on her forehead and she saw him standing a few steps away from her.

She again climbed up the bus and this time she knew she could not turn back. She sat on her place, trying to find him in the crowd but he was long gone.

Standing at a traffic signal, he texted her,

“It is one of many. Every time you leave and feel sad about leaving me behind, keep in mind, no matter where you are or how far you are from me, I am always there. Right by your side.”

Him and Her – Part II

She got up in his arms. It was the best place to fall asleep and get up for her. He was still asleep, she wanted to capture that beautiful moment and looked around for her phone and clicked an picture which was going to be her wallpaper coming months.

He was honking his bike downstairs, she came running trying to tie her pretty wet hair at the same time. She hopped on, holding him tight, the road and the traffic stopped bothering her. The ride was her frequent weekend dream, it was happening for real and she wanted to remember every moment of it.

“This trip is like his answer to all the I Miss You’s and I Want You’s I texted him.” She thought to herself. She was happy to feel him near her. They were starved of each other’s touch and company. This visit satisfied a tiny bit of that hunger but both of them knew even a life time of togetherness would fail to satisfy that hunger of company.

They were at their old usual place of lunch, they walked in together and instinctively sat on their usual place. Even the person who owned the place was happy to serve them together.

It was post lunch, she looked at the watch and knew it was time. He noticed her pretty face get drained of all the happiness and he understood it was time.


(Part III to follow.)


Him and her

She was in the taxi, eagerly waiting for her destination to come. This was the first time that she was so eager to jump out of the taxi as soon as it stops, she had already checked how much she will have to pay for the ride on her phone and emptied her purse to collect the exact amount to ensure no extra time gets wasted in the transaction.

Familiar neighborhood was passing by her sides and the view brought back a flood of memories, taking all the familiar turns the taxi stopped at a building. Suddenly she came back to her senses and she had no memory of directing the driver to the destination but she was quick, gave the money to the driver, thanked him and ran towards the staircase.

She looked around everything was same but still had a strange look, she climbed a flight of stairs and saw the door which she was dreaming of entering from long time and the first thing she noticed was a new name plate with his name one it and before she could knock he opened the door and the world came to a stand still for both of them.

We were looking at each other in person after a long time, both were awestruck to see each other, no one remembered when they came in but the door was now locked.  He was in the kitchen getting her a glass of water and she was looking around and trying to figure out what has changed in the last six months.

He came back with a glass of water, handed that glass to her and looked at her. The magic that took place at the moment is called falling in love all over again. They were looking into each others eyes, lost in a world of their own. A plane could have landed in the next ally and they wouldn’t have even noticed, this was the moment she was dreaming for from a long time and she knew he was waiting for the moment to come too.

Slightly leaning in, they kissed. The world around them was just a big blur for them, this was the moment, the moment of completion they were looking for. This wasn’t just a kiss, it was an expression, of a million I Love Yous and I Missed Yous. This kiss was a token of loyalty, honesty and unending love they had for each other.

His arms wrapped around her waist, hers around his neck, closed eyes and the amazing kiss!

It was around midnight, when she woke up. She was on the bed with him with his arm wrapped around her. She was with him, finally. In his loving arms, the place where she always wanted to be. She could see the happiness and satisfaction of being with her on his calm sleeping face and she decided to go back to sleep in the most comfortable place, his arms.


Dear Readers,

Thank you so much for the 1K hits, as promised is something special. Keep reading and share the feeling of love.

Lots of Love,


26th July – The Unusual We

Dear Bandru,

We always say that things are different with us, we are not like other couples.

Today, I want to talk about Why?

We don’t have a schedule (We talked about this yesterday.)

Unlike others, we have not spent much time together in person.

We are still getting to know each other and at the same time we know each other inside out.

We have the shortest Fight and Love You duration.

No matter who was upset but both of us end up cheering each other.

We are the only ones who say I love you 100 times in a fight.

Food has played a huge deal in making our relationship what it is now.

and I can go on for days but lets stop at,

Distance has always nurtured our relationship.

Lots of Love,

Bada Bandar.