Him and Her Part III

She was again on his bike, riding. The same wind was blowing, same sun was shining and same traffic was around them, the only difference was that everything was bothering her. His silence and even his words were annoying her at that moment.

Filtering through the traffic, as the bus stop was just a few miles, gloom started to take him down too. She knew that the U turn after dropping her will be the hardest one in his life and surprisingly she considered him a pretty good rider.

She slowly climbed up the stairs of the bus, he could see the sadness in each of her steps. She was aware of him looking at her, she turned and ran towards him for a final hug. The people, buses, traffic nothing matter to them at that moment. She felt his hands withdrawing from her waist slowly, a kiss on her forehead and she saw him standing a few steps away from her.

She again climbed up the bus and this time she knew she could not turn back. She sat on her place, trying to find him in the crowd but he was long gone.

Standing at a traffic signal, he texted her,

“It is one of many. Every time you leave and feel sad about leaving me behind, keep in mind, no matter where you are or how far you are from me, I am always there. Right by your side.”

Him and Her – Part II

She got up in his arms. It was the best place to fall asleep and get up for her. He was still asleep, she wanted to capture that beautiful moment and looked around for her phone and clicked an picture which was going to be her wallpaper coming months.

He was honking his bike downstairs, she came running trying to tie her pretty wet hair at the same time. She hopped on, holding him tight, the road and the traffic stopped bothering her. The ride was her frequent weekend dream, it was happening for real and she wanted to remember every moment of it.

“This trip is like his answer to all the I Miss You’s and I Want You’s I texted him.” She thought to herself. She was happy to feel him near her. They were starved of each other’s touch and company. This visit satisfied a tiny bit of that hunger but both of them knew even a life time of togetherness would fail to satisfy that hunger of company.

They were at their old usual place of lunch, they walked in together and instinctively sat on their usual place. Even the person who owned the place was happy to serve them together.

It was post lunch, she looked at the watch and knew it was time. He noticed her pretty face get drained of all the happiness and he understood it was time.


(Part III to follow.)


Him and her

She was in the taxi, eagerly waiting for her destination to come. This was the first time that she was so eager to jump out of the taxi as soon as it stops, she had already checked how much she will have to pay for the ride on her phone and emptied her purse to collect the exact amount to ensure no extra time gets wasted in the transaction.

Familiar neighborhood was passing by her sides and the view brought back a flood of memories, taking all the familiar turns the taxi stopped at a building. Suddenly she came back to her senses and she had no memory of directing the driver to the destination but she was quick, gave the money to the driver, thanked him and ran towards the staircase.

She looked around everything was same but still had a strange look, she climbed a flight of stairs and saw the door which she was dreaming of entering from long time and the first thing she noticed was a new name plate with his name one it and before she could knock he opened the door and the world came to a stand still for both of them.

We were looking at each other in person after a long time, both were awestruck to see each other, no one remembered when they came in but the door was now locked.  He was in the kitchen getting her a glass of water and she was looking around and trying to figure out what has changed in the last six months.

He came back with a glass of water, handed that glass to her and looked at her. The magic that took place at the moment is called falling in love all over again. They were looking into each others eyes, lost in a world of their own. A plane could have landed in the next ally and they wouldn’t have even noticed, this was the moment she was dreaming for from a long time and she knew he was waiting for the moment to come too.

Slightly leaning in, they kissed. The world around them was just a big blur for them, this was the moment, the moment of completion they were looking for. This wasn’t just a kiss, it was an expression, of a million I Love Yous and I Missed Yous. This kiss was a token of loyalty, honesty and unending love they had for each other.

His arms wrapped around her waist, hers around his neck, closed eyes and the amazing kiss!

It was around midnight, when she woke up. She was on the bed with him with his arm wrapped around her. She was with him, finally. In his loving arms, the place where she always wanted to be. She could see the happiness and satisfaction of being with her on his calm sleeping face and she decided to go back to sleep in the most comfortable place, his arms.


Dear Readers,

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Lots of Love,


26th July – The Unusual We

Dear Bandru,

We always say that things are different with us, we are not like other couples.

Today, I want to talk about Why?

We don’t have a schedule (We talked about this yesterday.)

Unlike others, we have not spent much time together in person.

We are still getting to know each other and at the same time we know each other inside out.

We have the shortest Fight and Love You duration.

No matter who was upset but both of us end up cheering each other.

We are the only ones who say I love you 100 times in a fight.

Food has played a huge deal in making our relationship what it is now.

and I can go on for days but lets stop at,

Distance has always nurtured our relationship.

Lots of Love,

Bada Bandar.


25th July – Routine

Dear Bandru,

Don’t worry it is not about your college and education. This is about our schedule and how amazingly cute that is. We have been together for more than three years and still every cute text brings the wave of feelings that is rare in a relationship that is as old as ours.

We don’t have a schedule, we don’t have that 9 pm call that every couple of our age has  we have a “I Was Missing You” call and that is a very amazing thing. We don’t love on a schedule, we love when we love there is no other factor involved in that.

Every time I see that #GoogleAllo icon up in my phone’s status bar, I get excited. Do you know why? It is because we don’t have a schedule, that text may be for letting me know that you are going to be late or even a random picture of you just because you felt like sending it to me or even just a long kiss to make me aware that you were missing me.

People say I love you once or twice a day, we end up saying it a thousand times a day and still we don’t get the feeling that our love for each other is expressed to our satisfaction and this is where those long kisses come in. I have a lot of friends who have the habit of leaning in my phone, all of them are always surprised by those long line of the letter “m”.

Do you know why it is like that? What we have was never imposed on us. No, I don’t mean that it was imposed on others or having a schedule is bad, all I am trying to say is we like being this way, we need this kind of outlet to our feeling to be happy and satisfied. We have been apart for a long time and that has done two things. One, the physical distance has made us more expressive with our words and has strengthen the feeling to a large extent. Second, we have understood how we strongly feel about each others company.

I am extremely happy with what we have now and I am sure it will always move towards better things.

Lots of Love,

Bada Bandar.

Dear Readers,

A makeover is coming soon along with better quality content and multiple media.

Thank you for the love,

Lots of Love,

Bada Bandar.


23rd July – 

Dear Bandru, 

I will send the package tomorrow!

There are a lot of things in our life that we have no control over and I want to take them as they are and not worry about them too much, like how bad the food is there or how much you are annoyed with the people who set up an alarm for five in the morning but just don’t get up, moment when you reach college in a hurry to see the muster is not there or even when you have to stop the video call because data is ending, moments when we have to cancel our meets because of your or my college work, moments when we are not able to talk because someone else’s friends are noisy af. 

Take a deep breath and let these things go. Focus on what is in your hands like spending the time thst we have in happiness through whichever media is available, utilizing the extra time you just got in college because of going early to catch up, when our meets get canceled, use the time to work a step ahead to make next one a bit longer.

What I am trying to say is that you cannot chnage things that you have no control over so worrying about such things is a complete waste of your time and energy, spend that energy kissing me 😉 

Lots of Love, 

Bada Bandar 

22nd July – Anti Stressing Boyfriend

Your Loving Boyfriend can be a good stress buster too.

Dear Bandru,

I want to help you, not that you need help but I want to tell you a few things which may help you.

I have a list of a few activities that has proven very helpful in decreasing in my daily life borne stress and today I want to share that recipe for a less stressed day to you.

  1.  Five minute Yoga and a morning Hello with God – This will pump up enough cheerfulness to get you through the day.
  2. Breakfast – Most important meal of the day, cornflakes, masala oats, normal oats, Poha, daliya whatever you like.
  3. Looking good to yourself gives you confidence to face the stress that is about to get poured on your head.
  4. I know you are going to hate this one but this still works baby, a To-Do List.
  5. Your Smartphone, its not a distraction! It’s a tool honey! I can give you a list of few apps that can do a lot of stuff for you.
  6. Playlists – Every mood has a playlist, figure out what suits your taste and no stress will ever get to you with that awesome music playing around you.
  7. Now, last but not the least! Your Loving Boyfriend can be a good stress buster too, give him a call or a ping and that silly little entertainer will pop up and make you smile.

Hope you like this one.

Lots of Love,

Bada Bandar

20th July – Am I

Am I too obsessed with you? I am maybe. But, is all of it bad?

Dear Bandru,

Am I too obsessed with you? I am maybe. May be it’s unhealthy, may be it will make you feel so irritated that you, out of the frustration will leave me,  May be it will make you the feeling that I am over possessive.


Is all of it bad?

Why should thinking about you all the time without losing productivity be considered bad?

Why should getting jealous when you plan a weekend trip be considered unhealthy? I am hundreds of miles away from you, I haven’t even been to the lake in our city with you.

Why should me getting worked up for your schedule be considered so ugly? A better schedule will do nothing but imporve your productivity and life.

Hope the pros balance the cons.

Lots of love,

Bada Bandar

19th July- Attention

everyone wants to feel needed, everyone wants to feel that they are thought of by their special ones.

Dear Bandru,

Attention is  a great feeling and it becomes amazing when it is coming from your someone special.

Long texts, lots of pictures, old memories told back to you feels amazing! When you get attention from your special one, the feeling that they want you to be in their lives, they think of you when you are not around strengthens and this makes the very base of a relationship stronger.

There is a common belief that for a relationship to last long, one of the two needs to take a step back, be the calm one and I agree to it but this principle does not apply when you talk about attention, everyone wants to  feel needed, everyone wants to feel that they are thought of by their special ones.

I want to thank you for making me feel all that!

Lots of Love,

Bada Bandar



18th July – Smile

Dear Bandru,

Just like the amazing picture you sent me a few days ago, a lot of things I do are to make my pretty girl smile.

The video where I am trying to spin a fidget spinner on my nose is also a part of the attempt. To be completely honest, I do not do this because I am your boyfriend and I should be the one making you laugh or smile but I do that because your smile calms me down, helps me relax and makes me happy again!

During our frequent video calls, every time I do something something stupid, you make a very cute face and that look for me has the strength to make everything right for me!

keep smiling my love, your smile solves a lot of problems for me!

Lots of Love,

Bada Bandar