22nd July – Anti Stressing Boyfriend

Your Loving Boyfriend can be a good stress buster too.

Dear Bandru,

I want to help you, not that you need help but I want to tell you a few things which may help you.

I have a list of a few activities that has proven very helpful in decreasing in my daily life borne stress and today I want to share that recipe for a less stressed day to you.

  1.  Five minute Yoga and a morning Hello with God РThis will pump up enough cheerfulness to get you through the day.
  2. Breakfast – Most important meal of the day, cornflakes, masala oats, normal oats, Poha, daliya whatever you like.
  3. Looking good to yourself gives you confidence to face the stress that is about to get poured on your head.
  4. I know you are going to hate this one but this still works baby, a To-Do List.
  5. Your Smartphone, its not a distraction! It’s a tool honey! I can give you a list of few apps that can do a lot of stuff for you.
  6. Playlists – Every mood has a playlist, figure out what suits your taste and no stress will ever get to you with that awesome music playing around you.
  7. Now, last but not the least! Your Loving Boyfriend can be a good stress buster too, give him a call or a ping and that silly little entertainer will pop up and make you smile.

Hope you like this one.

Lots of Love,

Bada Bandar

16th July-Distance

Dear Bandru,

The distance that is between us is extremely painful, every time I leave the house and see people around me I am reminded of us, you and the beautiful times that we have spent together.

I know we have talked about it a lot and have concluded that we have no control over the distance, we are away from each other for our careers, out future and I completely agree to it but it still hurts.

I act like I am all good but I am hurting all day. The point of revisiting this is, I can understand college, college events and hangouts with friends but the distance make me uncomfortable about outings and “other” things that even I have not experienced with you.

I know you have the “my life, i want to live freely” argument to this, I agree completely. You are free to do whatever you want in any manner you see fit to but I am not talking your freedom here, my point is the distance is painful and makes me uncomfortable about a lot of things and I really hope you understand what I am trying to express.

A relationship survives when both people take a few steps towards the other one. An understanding person can also loose in the relationship if the partner is an unresponsive one, I do not want our story to meet the end like that.  I want us be that couple that every kid on the street admires for their love story.

What I am expecting from you is to understand the fact that I do not hate your freedom but I want you to understand all I have here is your texts, your pictures and your memories to keep me company.

Lots of Love,

Bada Bandar.

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Lots of Love,

Banda Bandar

 

2nd July – Public Calls

Your presence can calm me down in any situation. 

Dear Bandru,

Long distance relationships mean a lot of phone call, don’t they? I have no problem with being on the phone for all the free hours I have with you but the akward fun starts when I walk to a super mall or a restaurant. People stare at me, wondering what is wrong with me. 

I like attention when it is from you, not from weird people sitting at a restaurant or the woman standing besides me on a traffic signal.

I am not at all complaining its very akward but fun. There is happiness of talking with you and the akwardness of random people staring at me. 

It is a new experience. I was on the bike today, talking to you with the helmet on. This was the first time, traffic didn’t bother me, I was happy. 

Your presence can calm me down in any situation. 

Lots of Love,

Bada Bandar

29th June – Twice a Day

The purity in your love is amazing and calming.

Dear Bandru,

How much I love you and feel for you is something that I have talked a lot about in the last 15 days. 

Today, I want to talk about WHY?

You are one of the most mature, understanding girl I have ever seen. 

Your simplicity takes me away from the superficial world out there.

The ease with which you understand my reasonable and unreasonable wishes is amazing.

The purity in your love is amazing and calming.

The understanding in your touch is something that I want to feel for my whole life.

Another one is coming soon! 
Lots of Love,

Bada Bandar

22nd June – One Month

You know the happily ever after stories? Ours will be one of those.

Dear bandru,

It has been month since you have left for the land far far away.  Since the day you have left, I have become extremely paranoid about everything. From you running away to someone else stealing your heart, each of these thought and other zillion thoughts similar to these have crossed my mind. 

Somewhere deep down I know, you will be there forever.

I really hope these two years to go by similarly, in happiness and love. After the two years, you will be in my arms forever. After that day we won’t need any video calling apps, IMs and cell phones to say the thousands of I Love Yous we say in a day!

You know the happily ever after stories? Ours will be one of those.

Lots of Love,

Bada Bandar